This BDSM profile list is intended to allow a submissive/bottom to give his or her intended Domme/Dom a full picture of his/her experience, desires and preferences. It draws on a number of 'checklists' available on the net, but has been designed to group the items in related areas rather than present them as an alphabetic list of otherwise random items.

With each item there is space to make a comment on each item as well as indicate experience/desire on the usual scales, viz:

	0	Do not want to do this: hard limit	0	No experience, do not want experience
	0	No desire at all to do this: soft limit	0	No experience at all
	2	Would only do this with reluctance	2	Minimal experience of this
	3	Neutral; no strong feelings either way about this	3	Have some experience of this
	4	Positive; welcome or enjoy this	4	Have experienced this a number of times and/or with more than one Domme
	5	Very positive; keen to do this if possible	5	Have experienced this regularly in many different scenes/ways

Dressing/Clothes

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Leather       Lingerie       Rubber/Latex       Sissy/Girlie (private)       Sissy/Girlie (public)       Slutty (private)       Slutty (public)       Spandex       Uniforms

SM Activities

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Asphyxiations       Bestiality (Legal Contact)       Breath Control       Branding       Choking       Cutting       Knife Play       Needle Play - Single or Dispersed       Needle Play - Extensive (Corsets & Patterning)       Water Torture

Bondage

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)       Blindfolds       Breast/chest bondage       Bondage (light)       Bondage (heavy)       Bondage (Multi-day)       Bondage Public (under clothes)       Cages (locked inside of)       Cells/Closets (locked inside of)       Chains       Chastity belts       Clingfilm (Saran) wrapping       Collars (worn in private)       Collars (worn in public)       Corsets (wearing casually)       Corsets (trained waist reduction)       Cuffs, Leather       Cuffs (Metal)       Gags (cloth)       Gags (Inflatable)       Gags (Phallic)       Gags (tape)       Gas Masks       Handcuffs       Harnessing (leather)       Harnessing (rope)       Hoods Generally       Hoods (Full head)       Immobilization       Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage       Manacles and Irons       Mouth Bits       Mummification       Pillory       Sensory Deprivation       Sleepsacks       Spreader Bars       Stocks       Straitjackets       Suspension (upright)       Suspension (inverted)       Suspension (horizontal)       Thumbcuffs       Toecuffs

Pain - CP

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Breast Whipping       Caning       Dressage Whips       Hairbrush Spankings       Over-The-Knee Spankings       Pussy/cock whipping       Riding Crops       Single Tail Whips       Snake Whips       Spanking generally       Strapping (full body beating)       Whipping generally       Wooden Paddles

Pain [Non-CP]

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Abrasion       Being Bitten       Clothespins       Face Slapping       Flame Play       Hair Pulling       Hot Oil on Genitals       Hot Wax       Ice cubes       Injections       Nipple Clamps       Nipple Weights       Other Nipple Play/ "Torture"       Riding the horse (Crotch torture)       Scratching (getting)       Stinging Nettles       Tickling       Urethral Sounds (metal rods)       Waxing (Hair Removal)

CBT

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Ball Stretching       Castration Fantasy       Catheterisation       Cock rings/straps       Gates of Hell       Kali's Teeth       Scrotal Saline Injection       Urethral Plugs       Urethral Sounds

Electrical

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Cattle prod       Electricity       E-Stim Type Devices       Muscle stimulators       TENS Unit       Violet Wand

Body Modification

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Nipple rings (piercings)       Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)       Piercing (permanent)       Plastic Surgery       Scarification (public)       Shaving (body hair)       Shaving (genitals)       Shaving (head hair)       Tattooing

Body Fluids

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Brown Showers (scat)       Chamber Pot (using)       Diapers (Wearing)       Diapers (Wetting)       Diapers (Messing)       Enemas (for cleansing)       Enemas (retention/punishment)       Forced Bedwetting       Forced Smoking       Golden Showers       Serving as ashtray       Serving as toilet (urine)       Serving as toilet (faeces)       Spitting       Swallowing semen       Swallowing urine       Swallowing faeces

Oral Activities

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Aromas       Cunnilingus (Give)       Cunnilingus (Receive)       Fellatio (Give)       Fellatio (Receive)       Foot Worship       Force Feeding       Homage with tongue (non-sexual)       Licking (non-sexual)       Oral/Anal Play (rimming)       Serving Orally (Sexual)       Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)

Anal Activities

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Anal Sex       Anal Plugs (small)       Anal Plugs (large)       Anal Plug (public, under clothes)       Anal Dilation       Fisting (Anal)       Speculum (Anal)       Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)

Female Genital Activities

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Dilation (Vaginal)       Dildos (Vaginal)       Double Penetration       Fisting (Vaginal)       Genital Sex       Labial Saline Injections       Labial Weights & Stretching       Speculum (Vaginal)

Sexual Activities

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Being Serviced (sexual)       Cock Worship       Forced Homosexuality       Forced Heterosexuality       Forced Masturbation       Hand jobs (giving)       Hand jobs (receiving)       Outdoor Sex       Phone sex (serving Domme)       Phone sex (serving Domme's Friends)       Phone sex (Commercial)       Pussy worship       Rape (Fantasy)       Rape (Gang, Fantasy)       Strap-on-dildos (wearing)       Swapping (with one other couple)       Swinging (multiple couples)       Triple Penetration       Vibrator on Genitals

Activities, Games and Scenes

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Auctioned for Charity       Boot worship       Competitions (with other Subs)       Erotic dance (for audience)       Examinations (physical)       Exercise (forced/required)       Exhibitionism (friends)       Exhibitionism (strangers)       Fantasy abandonment       Following Orders       Forced Dressing       Forced Nudity (Private)       Forced Nudity (Among Others)       Forced Servitude       Gun Play       High Heel wearing       High Heel worship       Humiliation (Private)       Humiliation (Public)       Hypnotism       Infantilism       Initiation Rites       Interrogations       Kidnapping       Lent to another Domme (temp)       Massage (giving)       Massage (receiving)       Medical Scenes       Modelling for Erotic Photos       Name change (for scene)       Name change (permanent)       Outdoor scenes       Persona Training (in scene)       Prison Scenes       Prostitution (public pretense)       Prostitution (actual)       Public Exposure       Punishment Scene       Religious Scenes       Serving other Dommes (supervised)       Serving other Dommes (unsupervised)       Skinny dipping       Tampon Training (in ass)       Teasing       Verbal Humiliation       Video (watching)       Video (appearing in)       Voyeurism (watching others)       Voyeurism (watching Domme)       Wrestling

Role Play

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Age Play       Animal Roles       Human Puppy Play       Maid Service       Pony Boy/Girl

Services

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Chauffeuring       Chores (domestic service)       Housework       Serving as Art       Serving as Furniture       Serving as Waitress/Waiter

Behaviours and Restrictions

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Bathroom Use Restrictions       Enforced Chastity       Eye contact restrictions       Having food chosen for you       Having clothing chosen for you       Kneeling       Lectures for misbehaviour       Orgasm Control       Orgasm Denial       Personality Modification (RL)       Reporting to Domme (daily email)       Reporting to Domme (daily phone)       Restrictive rules on behaviour       Rituals       Sexual Deprivation (short term)       Sexual Deprivation (long term)       Sleep Deprivation       Speech restrictions (when, what)       Standing in Corner       Wearing Symbolic Jewellery       Weight Gain (forced)       Weight Loss (forced)

Miscellaneous

	Activity Desire Comment Experience Fear (being scared)       Given Away to another Domme       Given Away to another Dom       Harems (serving w/other subs)       Including Others       Supplying new partners for Domme

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