BDSM Checklist Preamble.......

This BDSM profile list is intended to allow a submissive/bottom to give his or her intended Domme/Dom a full picture of his/her experience, desires and preferences. It draws on a number of 'checklists' available on the net, but has been designed to group the items in related areas rather than present them as an alphabetic list of otherwise random items.

With each item there is space to make a comment on each item as well as indicate experience/desire on the usual scales, viz:
      
0Do not want to do this: hard limit0No experience, do not want experience
1No desire at all to do this: soft limit1No experience at all
2Would only do this with reluctance2Minimal experience of this
3Neutral; no strong feelings either way about this3Have some experience of this
4Positive; welcome or enjoy this4Have experienced this a number of times and/or with more than one Domme
5Very positive; keen to do this if possible5Have experienced this regularly in many different scenes/ways

When printed out this BDSM-Fetish Checklist runs to about 9 pages of A4 depending on your printer settings.

BDSM checklist

Dressing/Clothes

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Leather    
Lingerie    
Rubber/Latex    
Sissy/Girlie (private)   
Sissy/Girlie (public)   
Slutty (private)   
Slutty (public)   
Spandex   
Uniforms    

SM Activities

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Asphyxiations   
Bestiality (Legal Contact)   
Breath Control   
Branding   
Choking   
Cutting   
Knife Play   
Needle Play - Single or Dispersed   
Needle Play - Extensive (Corsets & Patterning)   
Water Torture   

Bondage

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)   
Blindfolds   
Breast/chest bondage   
Bondage (light)   
Bondage (heavy)   
Bondage (Multi-day)   
Bondage Public (under clothes)   
Cages (locked inside of)   
Cells/Closets (locked inside of)    
Chains   
Chastity belts   
Clingfilm (Saran) wrapping   
Collars (worn in private)   
Collars (worn in public)   
Corsets (wearing casually)   
Corsets (trained waist reduction)   
Cuffs, Leather   
Cuffs (Metal)   
Gags (cloth)   
Gags (Inflatable)   
Gags (Phallic)   
Gags (tape)   
Gas Masks    
Handcuffs   
Harnessing (leather)   
Harnessing (rope)   
Hoods Generally   
Hoods (Full head)   
Immobilization   
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage   
Manacles and Irons   
Mouth Bits   
Mummification   
Pillory   
Sensory Deprivation   
Sleepsacks   
Spreader Bars   
Stocks   
Straitjackets   
Suspension (upright)   
Suspension (inverted)   
Suspension (horizontal)   
Thumbcuffs   
Toecuffs   

Pain - CP

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Breast Whipping   
Caning   
Dressage Whips   
Hairbrush Spankings   
Over-The-Knee Spankings   
Pussy/cock whipping   
Riding Crops   
Single Tail Whips   
Snake Whips    
Spanking generally   
Strapping (full body beating)   
Whipping generally   
Wooden Paddles   

Pain [Non-CP]

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Abrasion   
Being Bitten   
Clothespins   
Face Slapping   
Flame Play   
Hair Pulling   
Hot Oil on Genitals   
Hot Wax   
Ice cubes   
Injections   
Nipple Clamps   
Nipple Weights   
Other Nipple Play/ "Torture"   
Riding the horse (Crotch torture)   
Scratching (getting)   
Stinging Nettles   
Tickling   
Urethral Sounds (metal rods)   
Waxing (Hair Removal)   

CBT

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Ball Stretching    
Castration Fantasy    
Catheterisation    
Cock rings/straps   
Gates of Hell   
Kali's Teeth   
Scrotal Saline Injection   
Urethral Plugs   
Urethral Sounds   

Electrical

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Cattle prod    
Electricity    
E-Stim Type Devices    
Muscle stimulators    
TENS Unit   
Violet Wand   

Body Modification

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Nipple rings (piercings)    
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)    
Piercing (permanent)    
Plastic Surgery   
Scarification (public)   
Shaving (body hair)   
Shaving (genitals)   
Shaving (head hair)   
Tattooing    

Body Fluids

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Brown Showers (scat)    
Chamber Pot (using)    
Diapers (Wearing)    
Diapers (Wetting)   
Diapers (Messing)   
Enemas (for cleansing)   
Enemas (retention/punishment)   
Forced Bedwetting   
Forced Smoking    
Golden Showers    
Serving as ashtray    
Serving as toilet (urine)    
Serving as toilet (faeces)   
Spitting   
Swallowing semen   
Swallowing urine   
Swallowing faeces   

Oral Activities

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Aromas    
Cunnilingus (Give)    
Cunnilingus (Receive)    
Fellatio (Give)    
Fellatio (Receive)    
Foot Worship   
Force Feeding   
Homage with tongue (non-sexual)   
Licking (non-sexual)   
Oral/Anal Play (rimming)   
Serving Orally (Sexual)    
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)   

Anal Activities

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Anal Sex   
Anal Plugs (small)   
Anal Plugs (large)   
Anal Plug (public, under clothes)   
Anal Dilation   
Fisting (Anal)   
Speculum (Anal)   
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)   

Female Genital Activities

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Dilation (Vaginal)   
Dildos (Vaginal)   
Double Penetration   
Fisting (Vaginal)   
Genital Sex   
Labial Saline Injections   
Labial Weights & Stretching   
Speculum (Vaginal)   

Sexual Activities

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Being Serviced (sexual)   
Cock Worship   
Forced Homosexuality   
Forced Heterosexuality   
Forced Masturbation   
Hand jobs (giving)   
Hand jobs (receiving)   
Outdoor Sex   
Phone sex (serving Domme)   
Phone sex (serving Domme's Friends)   
Phone sex (Commercial)   
Pussy worship   
Rape (Fantasy)   
Rape (Gang, Fantasy)   
Strap-on-dildos (wearing)   
Swapping (with one other couple)   
Swinging (multiple couples)   
Triple Penetration   
Vibrator on Genitals   

Activities, Games and Scenes
   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Auctioned for Charity   
Boot worship   
Competitions (with other Subs)   
Erotic dance (for audience)   
Examinations (physical)   
Exercise (forced/required)   
Exhibitionism (friends)   
Exhibitionism (strangers)   
Fantasy abandonment   
Following Orders   
Forced Dressing   
Forced Nudity (Private)   
Forced Nudity (Among Others)   
Forced Servitude   
Gun Play   
High Heel wearing   
High Heel worship   
Humiliation (Private)   
Humiliation (Public)   
Hypnotism   
Infantilism   
Initiation Rites   
Interrogations   
Kidnapping   
Lent to another Domme (temp)   
Massage (giving)   
Massage (receiving)   
Medical Scenes   
Modelling for Erotic Photos   
Name change (for scene)   
Name change (permanent)   
Outdoor scenes   
Persona Training (in scene)   
Prison Scenes   
Prostitution (public pretense)   
Prostitution (actual)   
Public Exposure   
Punishment Scene   
Religious Scenes   
Serving other Dommes (supervised)   
Serving other Dommes (unsupervised)   
Skinny dipping   
Tampon Training (in ass)   
Teasing   
Verbal Humiliation   
Video (watching)   
Video (appearing in)   
Voyeurism (watching others)   
Voyeurism (watching Domme)   
Wrestling   

Role Play

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Age Play    
Animal Roles    
Human Puppy Play    
Maid Service   
Pony Boy/Girl   

Services

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Chauffeuring    
Chores (domestic service)    
Housework    
Serving as Art   
Serving as Furniture   
Serving as Waitress/Waiter   

Behaviours and Restrictions

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Bathroom Use Restrictions    
Enforced Chastity    
Eye contact restrictions    
Having food chosen for you   
Having clothing chosen for you   
Kneeling   
Lectures for misbehaviour   
Orgasm Control    
Orgasm Denial   
Personality Modification (RL)   
Reporting to Domme (daily email)    
Reporting to Domme (daily phone)   
Restrictive rules on behaviour   
Rituals    
Sexual Deprivation (short term)   
Sexual Deprivation (long term)   
Sleep Deprivation   
Speech restrictions (when, what)   
Standing in Corner   
Wearing Symbolic Jewellery   
Weight Gain (forced)   
Weight Loss (forced)   

Miscellaneous

   
 
Activity DesireCommentExperience
Fear (being scared)    
Given Away to another Domme    
Given Away to another Dom    
Harems (serving w/other subs)   
Including Others   
Supplying new partners for Domme   

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